Loyalty and Fidelity — The Chivalric Bond
Objective: Define fidelity and recognize it as the virtue underlying both feudal oaths and Christian faithfulness.
Fidelity (loyalty) is the steadfast keeping of one's commitments and the faithful honoring of one's bonds — to God, to family, to friends, and to those we have promised to serve. Its root is the Latin fides, 'faith,' and it is closely tied to the theological virtue of faith and to justice, since to be faithful is to give others what we have promised them. The whole feudal world rested on fidelity: a vassal who broke his oath was a 'felon' (the word's original meaning), the lowest kind of traitor. Out of this grew the code of chivalry — the ideal that a knight should be loyal, brave, honest, protective of the weak, and devoted to God and the Church. The opposite vice is treachery or faithlessness: the betrayal of trust, broken promises, fair-weather friendship. Scripture praises fidelity again and again. In Proverbs 3:3 we read, 'Let not loyalty and faithfulness forsake you; bind them about your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart.' And Christ promises the faithful servant, 'Well done, good and faithful servant' (Matthew 25:21). True fidelity is not blind — we owe ultimate loyalty to God above any earthly lord — but within rightly ordered bonds, faithfulness is one of the most beautiful of human qualities.
Discussion Questions
- 1When, if ever, is it right to break a promise or refuse an order?
- 2How is loyalty to God meant to shape our loyalty to people and causes?
Copy Proverbs 3:3 into your notebook and underline the two qualities it tells you to 'bind about your neck.'
Vocabulary
- fidelity
- Faithfulness; the steadfast keeping of one's commitments and bonds.
- chivalry
- The medieval code of honorable conduct expected of a knight.
Proverbs 3:3 — 'Let not loyalty and faithfulness forsake you...'