Virtue of the Week: Humility
Objective: Define humility, distinguish it from low self-worth, and choose one way to practice it.
Humility is the virtue of seeing yourself truthfully — knowing both your gifts and your faults, and recognizing that everything good in you is a gift from God. It is not thinking you are worthless; it is not thinking about yourself too much at all. St. Augustine is the great model: in his 'Confessions' he wrote with brutal honesty about his pride, his sins, and his slow conversion, giving God the credit for every step toward the good. The opposite vice is pride — the disordered love of one's own excellence, the refusal to admit fault or to depend on God. Pride was, in the Christian tradition, the first sin and the root of all others. Scripture is blunt about it: 'God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble' (James 4:6), and Jesus said, 'Whoever humbles himself will be exalted' (Matthew 23:12). Mary's 'Magnificat' praises God who 'has scattered the proud' and 'exalted the lowly.' Humility is strangely freeing: when you stop defending your image, you can admit mistakes, ask for help, and learn. It is the soil in which every other virtue grows — which is why Augustine said the way to truth is 'first humility, second humility, third humility.'
Discussion Questions
- 1How is humility different from thinking you are worthless?
- 2Why did Augustine call humility the first, second, and third step toward truth?
- 3Where is pride most tempting in your own life — and what would humility look like there?
Your humility challenge this week: when you make a mistake, admit it plainly and without excuses at least once each day. Note in your journal one time you did it.
Vocabulary
- humility
- The virtue of truthful self-knowledge that gives glory to God for one's gifts.
- pride
- The disordered love of one's own excellence; the chief of the seven deadly sins.
"God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble." — James 4:6